Last Monday I did something I have wanted to do for a long time. I joined my daughter on a school activity. It was the very first one I have ever been able to attend, and it felt like a milestone for both of us. As a mom of four, my days are usually a mix of schedules, pickups, and trying to be in several places at once, so saying yes to this trip meant a lot.

Our First Time Skiing at Sommet Olympia

I do not have a car and I do not drive, so longer distances are not always easy. Getting to places outside the city usually requires planning, favors, and a bit of courage to ask for help. One of her friend’s moms kindly offered me a ride to the mountain, and that simple gesture made the whole day possible. I was grateful not only for the lift, but also for the chance to share the experience with another parent.

The trip was exciting because it was the first time my daughter and I had ever been skiing. I think it was a first for her friend as well, so we were all beginners figuring it out together. We went to Sommet Olympia, about 45 minutes to an hour from where we live, and roughly the same from Montreal. The drive there, watching the scenery change from city streets to snowy hills, already felt like a little adventure.

From the moment we arrived, the atmosphere was welcoming. The staff were friendly and patient, clearly used to nervous kids and equally nervous parents. The school had organized equipment rentals for the students, so everything was ready when we got there. I am not sure how the regular rental process works, but for the school group it seemed smooth and well handled.

Seeing my daughter in ski boots for the first time made me emotional in a way I did not expect. These are the childhood moments you hope to witness as a parent, the ones that become stories later. I was also stepping far outside my own comfort zone. Winter sports have never been part of my world, but I’m so happy I was there to see my daughter experience it.

What stayed with me most was not the skiing itself. It was the time together. No rushing, no errands, no distractions. Just cold air, laughter, and the feeling that I was exactly where I was supposed to be. For parents like me who rely on buses, rides from others, and a lot of coordination, experiences like this do not always come easily, which makes them even more meaningful.

By the end of the day, we were all exhausted in the best way. On the ride home, my daughter asked if we could go skiing again someday. I do not know how we will make it happen yet, but hearing her say that made every bit of effort worth it.

Sometimes showing up for our kids requires extra planning, extra asking, and stepping outside what feels comfortable. But last Monday reminded me that those yes moments turn into the memories they carry with them forever.

Tips for Parents Who Do Not Drive but Want to Join School Activities

• Do not be afraid to ask early if another parent has space in their car. Most families are happy to help when they know someone needs a ride.
• Check if the school offers a parent seat on the bus for field trips. Some do if there is availability.
• Look into public transit options ahead of time, even if it means arriving a little earlier.
• Offer something in return, like buying coffee, helping supervise kids, or covering part of parking.
• Keep a small travel bag ready so saying yes at the last minute is easier.

Budgeting for a First Ski Experience

• School trips are often the most affordable way to try skiing because rentals and lessons are included.
• Borrow what you can, especially helmets, snow pants, and goggles.
• Thrift stores and local parent groups are great for finding ski clothing at low cost.
• Pack snacks and water instead of buying everything at the resort.
• Remember that beginners do not need fancy gear to have a great first day.

A Gentle Reflection on Asking for Help

As moms we get used to doing everything on our own. Asking for help can feel uncomfortable, almost like we are inconveniencing others. This trip reminded me that community still exists. One car ride from another mom opened the door to a memory I will carry forever. Letting people help us is not a weakness. It is how we show our kids that we do not have to do life alone.

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